How to make neighbour stop banging door or let everybody in the building know that is him who is banging.?

Our apartments are in the same side of the building and we have a common door (iron) for security purposes. When we get home we have to open that door so that we can reach our apartment doors. There is quite a lot of space between the door and our apartment doors.


Recently I have a quarrel with my neighbour for he is using that area for his personal things (a locker, a shoe shelve and other materials). I talked to him explaining that the place is supposed to be a area for both of us and it is not convenient to put personal belongins there and on the other hand it will be dangerous in case of fire.


He argued that those things do not bother me but finally he accepted with bad mood and returned the things inside, but from then on, everytime he goes out or comes back, he purposedly slams the iron door causing a great bang and rush into his apartment. I don't want to talk to him again because this kind of behaviour is not of a normal person and I am not to teach him manners. Please help

How to make neighbour stop banging door or let everybody in the building know that is him who is banging.?
i'd write a formal letter to the owner/manager of the building. If you have to keep records of every time he "bangs" the door. It is time consuming, but at least you won't have to go my your memory alone, and you'll have proof.


Before you complain, make sure he is doing it often as once a week doesn't cut it.


I agree you shouldn't have to teach this man any manners.





GOOD LUCK!
Reply:It sounds like familiarity breeds contempt. Your neighbor is taking their frustration out on you - and letting you know that he wants the upper hand, even if he doesn't or won't have it. Even though you are right about the hazards in blocking a hallway - the neighbor doesn't want to consider others' feelings - but rather is grieving his easy storage place. Until the cool down, and eventually getting over having to find a new location, expect this passive -aggressive display of non-neighborly attitude. Give himm a chance to cool down and wise up. I'd give it three weeks - the time it takes to develop a new habit - before I said something about the intense noise. It is flu season - and migraines come with the virus - consider a splitting headache, please. Have a healthy and happy leap year!
Reply:Talk to the owner/manager of the building.
Reply:Maybe, be in a polite manner and tell him to be kind to his neighbors. Talk to him with someone with u so there's a mediator between the two of you.





Be nice and startup a good friendship with him.





God Bless!
Reply:Seems to me your just looking for drama, I highly doubt those items were a bother, you just wanted to have something to get pissed at him about, only way it would be a fire hazard is if the items were blocking the whole door which there not because you said you can get in and out the door just his stuff is there. I think you need to take the high road and not look for fights to have with this person, or move to a place that FAR away from others.



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